The Reasons Why Woman Choose to Become a Cheater

Jumat, 23 Juni 2023 - 12:30 WIB

Oleh :

Arianti Widya

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World – Cheating is an act of unfaithfulness. Usually, cheating is committed by someone who is in a committed relationship and who violates their partner's trust by becoming physically or emotionally involved with another person.

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In real life, cheating actually refers to men. But it turns out that women can also cheat, some even say that women are much smarter at cheating.

"About 45% of women in a relationship cheat on their partner, compared to 60% of men," according to a psychologist and couples therapist, Dr. J.D., a psychiatrist.

It turns out that women's reasons for cheating have become more similar over time. However, there are several reasons why women choose to become a cheater. So, here are the top three reasons women have affairs:

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1. Lack of love for partner

Women cheat on their partners when they have little to no love for their partners. Lack of love, care and understanding makes a woman lose the desire to love her partner which can happen due to reasons such as lack of honesty, attention and more.

When they start losing the desire to love, they tend to be attracted to other people which then leads to sexual and emotional infidelity.

2. Lack of sexual desire

Many women have affairs when they no longer feel sexually attracted to their partner. People don't really recognize sexual desire and need as a reason for the lack of understanding between two partners, but it is very significant.

Women may want sexual variety that they may not be getting in their current relationship. And hence, their needs turn to others outside their relationship.

3. Feeling trapped in the relationship

Women don't want to stay with a partner who makes them feel worthless and less valuable than they really are. Feeling lonely or trapped can cause women to seek love and attention outside the relationship.

When they don't feel loved, they will turn to people who might love them in return, whether it's through sex with someone or simply the comfort of someone's presence.